Marrying Early or Late?
It is only logical to assume that those who are in their thirties and above are more advanced and certain of the choices they make; there is a purpose in what they are doing. Unlike early marriages that comes with many uncertainties; one party might not have metamorphosed into their true being at the time of marriage and when change begins to happen, the other party complains about the drastic change in behavioural pattern. Then you are likely to hear a saying such as: “you are not the person I married”.
Love Tortures Men Too
If a woman is not in love with you, you can’t force it and if you wish to live on hoping that the situation will improve, you will damage your health. Women are heartless in this situation. For a male, stress can lead to unpredictable consequences. You have to be very careful not to commit an assault on the girl and the love turns to hatred. Since you also cannot pretend to love her less to balance the equation, you have to endure the torture as she smiles to say “But I love you too” otherwise it is “Don’t be silly, you know I love you.”