The Dangers of Being Born Male
As the breadwinner, in most cases, he has to labour from dawn to dusk. The pressure of being male and the social high expectation affects his morals thus reducing his chances of getting to heaven. For example, to succeed in business he has to be shrewd, hard, heartless and even wicked against his fellow men. Killing in some cases is part of his business strategy because business is seen as ‘politics’ and vice visa.
Do Women Really Sin?
What is sin? From the religious point of view, a sin is an act of defiance of set rules. If eating bread is forbidden, then eating it is a sin. In relation to male and female relationships, the woman is expected to submit to the man (Gen 3:16). In this regard, she remains blameless even for acts that she wilfully commits. The silent logic is that a man, in fact, any man should have restrained her; the weak vessel, from committing unwholesome acts, else the blame shifts to the man or all men. Women, like children, are supposed to be weak and maybe feeble-hearted, hence incapable of doing wrong. But every boy is a potential man, who like real men are made strong in body and mind; and as such, capable of self-control for personal accountability, hence capable of committing sin.
Are There Necessary Secrets to Keep?
Do you need to tell your very best friend how you make your legitimate money? Supposing out of envy, they go to block it in order to laugh at you when you drain out! Do you need to tell your wife that in your last dream you slept with her best friend, her mother or sister?
Measure of Jealousy Between Men and Women
If even a faithful lover can be accused or suspected of infidelity, then is there no healthy understanding between professed lovers? And since this same threat reoccurs even after the parties are wedded, then can we feel it is a drive borne out of love?